August 6th, 2012

my friends and I talk about sex…a lot.
some of the conversations are interesting…
some are serious…
and some are just downright knee-slappingly hilarious
I will try to share some of our “insights” this week, in the hope that some may be entertained, and others educated.
if you laugh a bit too?
that works.

[guest post by the Yearning Ninny]

Here’s something I don’t understand about men;
especially when they aren’t really good at it…

Men talk about sex more than women do…
think about sex more than women do…
dream about sex more than women do…
so why then, when it comes to actually having sex, are they so keen to get it over and done with so quickly?
It baffles me.
I know this isn’t all men.
My last boyfriend definitely did not fall into this category.
Perhaps this is why I am now so shocked at the lack of sex skills in other men;
it’s a disappointingly stark contrast.
Perhaps it’s just men that don’t seem to have had many long-term relationships that think getting to the finish line is the most important thing?
I mean relationships are really where you refine your skills, learn about what the other person’s wants/likes/needs.
But why do these men think this?
Let’s face it, sex is fun,
yeah orgasms are amazing but so is the build-up.
Why rush it?
I’m not saying every sexual encounter should be a slow love-making affair, but you can take your time fucking to really make the most of it.
And guys, if your feel like you can’t make fucking last a long time, change positions!!! Switch it up a bit.
Let us enjoy it too.
The really confusing part is that it’s in a guy’s interest to make a girl enjoy sex as much as possible.
Not paying enough attention to her and focusing on your own route to glory is just shooting yourself in the foot.
The more we enjoy it,
the more we get into it;
the more you get out of it.
Make us think you’re a selfless lover and we will be putty in your hands.
It’s a mutually beneficial process.
So why on earth do guys still insist on skipping to the finish line?

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2 Responses to “[slow down]”

taynement Says:

The more we enjoy it,the more we get into it;the more you get out of it.

pretty much sums it up. As a friend told me earlier, “pleasuring a woman is a gift that keeps on giving”

Sims Says:

Amen to that. Lol. Loving this blog thus far

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